One time I was working and I walked outside on my break and started chatting with a couple girls I work with. I asked what they were doing for St.Valentines day (one of three Christian saints along with St Patrick and St Nicholas) that the secular work appreciates) one girl told me she was going to the movies with her boyfriend, the other said she was doing nothing except eating chocolate and watching movies. I said this was a travesty and I would be happy to take her out. I picked her up and we went to the Aquarium as we arrived i pulled out my entertainment coupon which got us in two for one. Its $20 each. She gasped! I laughed and asked what the problem was. She wouldn't respond. Oh well the aquarium is so fun that by the time we hit the sea otters it was all good. We laughed, we danced as I taught her how to salsa dance in there, we played with some kids that I started up a conversation with, and she grabbed my hand a few times as we walked around. So after that we go to a nice top floor revolving restaurant down town. I pulled out another coupon and that was it for her. She yelled at me that I was embarrassing her, and she wanted to go home. I explained I thought we were out as friends having a fun day and I use coupons all the time because why not? If you are scouting me for a relationship, you will know that we will always be able to go out and have fun even if we don’t have much money. she laughed and we had a great end of the night but the next day she said she didn't think we should go out again and that was fine with me. We stayed friend and we still laugh about it when we bump into each other. Whenever she sees me out with a girl she loves to tell the story.
So the question here is: “is it wrong to use coupons on a first date?”
So the question here is: “is it wrong to use coupons on a first date?”
I actually had a very conservative Christian friend actually swear at me saying that this was wrong.
I've also had people tell me that if she cant handle coupons then she is too uptight.
I'm not kidding, this has been one of the most hotly debated issues in my circle of friends. Ive even lost a couple friends because they say they cant handle that I would treat a girl in such a disrespectful fashion as to use a coupon on a date.
I've also had people tell me that if she cant handle coupons then she is too uptight.
I'm not kidding, this has been one of the most hotly debated issues in my circle of friends. Ive even lost a couple friends because they say they cant handle that I would treat a girl in such a disrespectful fashion as to use a coupon on a date.
Personally I say dating should be fun, not an audition for marriage. The first date is just two friends going out. What do you think?